How do you feel when you’re anxious?
Most of us get all worked up. Flighty. Antsy. And tense.
Why do we get tense?
It all comes back to the ‘fight or flight’ response: a biological signal that gets us ready to take action. Either we attack the bear or we run away. (If you’re anything like me, you’ll be getting the hell outta those woods!)
When we receive the signal, our body tenses up. Our muscles grip and get ready to rampage or run.
But what if there isn’t really any threat? What if we’re just nervous about everything, ALL THE TIME? Well, the stress response is still triggered. And we stay pent up, a frazzled ball of anxiety. And that state can become our daily norm. Which isn’t very healthy (or fun)!
So what can we do?
Let’s take a leaf out of Dr Edmund Jacobson’s book. He came up with the Progressive Muscle Relaxation (PMR) technique to help his patients relax their muscles. The idea is that by tensing and releasing your muscles, you can then spot when your ‘fight or flight’ response has been triggered. And by going through the practice below, you’ll ease the tension and calm your body and mind.
It’s a 13-step sequence, starting from the hands to the toes.
Here’s how it works:
Focus on one muscle group
Tense the muscles for 10 seconds
Relax the muscles for 10 or 15 seconds
Breathe smoothly during the practice
Do it once a day if you can
I’ve adapted this table from the Mental Health Academy. Click on the table to download it as a PDF:
I’ve tried this technique a few times – and it really works!
What about you? I’d love to know how you go with it.